Merry Christmas!

The Cozy Cabin

Last week I had another artist reception - this time at The Cabin Coffeehouse and Cafe in Bemidji. I've had my photo cards on display at The Cabin since the summer, but now I am the featured artist for the month of December so my whole line of cards and prints will be available through the end of the year. It was a fun evening and the first of my art receptions where my parents, Tom & Yvonne, were able to attend. So cool! Even though they have "officially" flown south for the winter (and driving their motorhome out West), they fly in for the holidays so we can spend Christmas together each year. It works out great for everyone!


How ironic that the owner of The Cabin, Noemi Aylesworth, and I go waaaaaay back... in fact, we were on stage together in the Paul Bunyan Playhouse production of Oklahoma! back in 1993. It's still hard to believe that was 16 years ago... but what fun memories I have of that show and the other seasons at PBP. Lots of good friendships created those summers. Good times :o)


So now it's approaching the holidays and time, once again, to reconnect with family and friends. I made a quick trip out to Hawaii again this Thanksgiving to visit my Hawaii Ohana, and that was an amazing trip (as always). You can read more about some of my insights gained on that trip on my Balance Factor blog. Hawaii always grounds me in a way unlike any other place on earth... probably because it's so naturally beautiful and commands your attention and respect. Mother Nature is in full bloom on the lovely islands and she's not afraid to remind you of it every day. Ahhh, Hawaii - Aloha au iā 'oe.

Wishing you a safe happy holiday season and happy new year.

Namaste,

The Ambassador

A Nod by National Geographic

This past week one of my favorite photos was selected as a featured choice for the 2009 National Geographic International Photography Contest - quite an exciting event! Now I need your vote. Please take a moment to rate my photo as part of the public voting portion of the contest. Voting ends November 8th. Just go to:

• http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/photo-contest/voting-machine
• Select "Category: Nature"
• Select "October: Week 4"
• Rate each photo - mine is the last in the series ("View from the Top")
  

When you've finished voting you will see the combined average of ratings for each photo. Remember: voting ends November 8th, so cast your vote as soon as you can. You can also download a copy of "View from the Top" as your wallpaper by visiting: http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/photo-contest/2009-wallpaper and selecting my photo. 


What an exciting adventure my photography has been. I was just accepted into the Susan Fryer Voigt Gallery this past week and will be featured next weekend in Art Attack - an annual art event at the Northrup King building in Northeast Minneapolis. My photography will continue to be featured in Susan's gallery throughout November and December. I will also be the featured artist at The Cabin Coffee House and Cafe for the month on December with a reception on December 9th. Busy busy!


All of the recent events continue reminding me that whatever you pay attention to does, indeed, expand. So with that in mind, make sure you are paying attention to what you love!


Happy week,

The Ambassador

Art Opening Fun

For the past month I've been enjoying the opportunity to participate in two Artist Receptions and a TV spot for my latest photography line, Inspiration from the World.

On September 26th I had an Art Opening at Wilde Roast Cafe in Minneapolis with a reception followed by a free concert by Eric Himan. It was a great opportunity to visit with friends and family as several people stopped by to see my work and hear my stories; plus, I got to meet Eric and listen to his fantastic songs! You can find my photography on sale and display at Wilde Roast through the holidays.

The next week, on October 2nd, I was the featured artist on the First Friday Art Walk through downtown Bemidji. The Art Walk is a monthly event sponsored by local businesses. Each participating business has an artist of the month, and during October I was chosen to represent Bad Cat Creations, the funky novelty store and gift shop downtown. The owner of Bad Cat, Christina, is featuring my entire line of photo cards and prints (both framed and unframed) throughout the month. Pretty exciting!

Then last week, the local television station, Lakeland Public Television, contacted me to do a story on my artwork. One of their reporters, Ashley Soukup, came to my house last week and recorded an interview which aired on the 10 o'clock news last Friday. To access the broadcast, click here (it's at the end, 25:15). I feel that Ashley did a very nice job portraying the purpose and intent of my artwork. Preparing for the interview was also very helpful since I am writing an application for a Bush Artist Fellowship (BAF) grant for 2010. This grant would make it possible for me to continue traveling the world, shooting my pictures, blogging my stories, and then sharing them with people--especially kids :o)

Part of my application process for the BAF has been to write an Artist's Statement about my work, what I do and what it means to me. Here is what I've drafted so far:

"My passion is to teach and inspire people through my photography. By traveling to destinations throughout the world and documenting my experiences, my goals as a teacher and artist are to make visible what might have gone overlooked; remind people to pause and notice the beauty that surrounds them; and help replace a fear of the world with curiosity.

I find my most powerful work comes from moments of discovery and during times of solitude and introspection. Whether the photo is of a brilliant sunset, rugged mountain with a single tree or animal in its natural habitat, my focus is on revealing the beauty contained within that moment. I want to remind people wherever they may be to pause and notice the beauty around them—to move into a state of appreciation for something they literally didn’t see before.

My photography invites both questions and curiosity: "Take a look at the world. What do you see? What interests you? What is beautiful? What is a little scary? What do you want to know more about?" I strive to instill a sense of courage in those who appreciate my work by motivating them to venture out and experience the world. In so doing, they may stumble upon something profound along the way.

To that end, in fall 2008 I introduced my photos and stories to junior high Geography classes through Michael on the Move—an opportunity for kids to learn about the world through my travel blogs. Broadcasting from India via the Internet, I spoke with kids and answered questions about my photos from India, Asia, and Europe. In winter 2009 I brought Michael on the Move to the classroom, making a personal appearance and connecting with the kids directly to share my stories. In response, many students were inspired to continue the conversation by making comments on my blog. One student wrote, “I've always wanted to travel to India and experience the different culture…you have inspired me.”

During summer 2009, I moved my artwork into the community by sharing it in art shows, craft fairs, and gallery receptions at local cafés and gift shops. Inspiration from the World is my first artistic endeavor for which I have a book, photo cards, and prints. I chose to focus on this theme as a way to connect with the community and share my favorite moments of inspiration with others. I was also interviewed by a local television station that featured a story about my mission to teach people about the world through my photography. These experiences have added richly to my artistic and personal development, confidence, and sense of purpose.

Whether I am speaking in the community, visiting a local school, displaying my photography in an art show, or connecting with people online through my photo galleries and blogs, my objective remains the same: to teach and inspire people through my photography."

We'll have to wait and see how it turns out... I've still got some editing to do. But the process of writing the statement is amazing--it really allows me to put things into perspective. After all, I want to continue to focus on what I love as I'm implementing the new business plan for my life!

Have a great week.

The Ambassador

Steppin Out

Last week, Shawn and I attended the 2009 Ivey Awards - the annual event which celebrates the best of Twin Cities theater. Our evening was filled with exciting events including a pre-show VIP party, preferred seating at the awards show in the State Theater (3rd row!), and an after-show party in LaSalle Plaza. Apparently there were over 4,000 people in attendance and the entire night was full of laughter, applause, and good energy.

During the course of the evening I ran into old friends and former cast members from shows in my past (namely, summers at Paul Bunyan Playhouse :o), and I even connected face-to-face with some of my most recent Facebook virtual friends! Good times. I was reminded many times throughout the evening how much joy the theater brings to people - regardless of generation, occupation, or level of interest, theater has something for everyone. Plus, the entire evening was about celebrating people - those on the stage as well as those in the audience. Whenever you celebrate people you will feel a sense of flowing gratitude both from those giving recognition and those receiving it, and gratitude is the most sincere form of thanks. Right on!

Seems like I've been traveling to the Twin Cities each weekend for one reason or another this month and each time it's been such a pleasure - perhaps because I'm not living there and you know how that goes: once you don't live somewhere it's so much more exciting to visit!

Happy Autumn, all!

The Ambassador

Fun in Sconnie

Remember those summer vacations when your favorite cousin would come to visit for a week and you would pack all sorts of fun things into a short time? Suddenly three or four days felt like several weeks as you would enter the creative zone and do whatever it was you both felt like doing--it was awesome! This summer I had a couple chances to visit my buddy Shawn as he was working in Wisconsin, and our adventures reminded me of those summer vacations with my cousin.

Shawn has been performing at the Festival Theater in St. Croix Falls this summer, playing several characters during their summer repertoire... in fact, Shawn played was given the opportunity to stretch his acting talent when he was cast as seven different characters in only two plays! The first show, Four by Two, was a romantic comedy montage where two actors play eight characters in four short plays; and the second show was Sylvia - another comedy about relationships and the life of a man and his dog. I was fortunate enough to see both of those shows and witness Shawn's amazing talent.

So during my visits I stayed with Shawn out at Loretta & Jerry's farm, a few miles north of St. Croix Falls. Loretta and Jerry were kind enough to house Shawn for the summer (like a host family!), so I was given the official guest treatment each time I would visit. I got to experience all sorts of new things on the farm like meeting the lambs and lamas, and seeing how wool was spun into yarn. Loretta has several looms and creates amazing rugs and tapestries from their own wool. Wow! Their farm is full of animals and artwork - truly an amazing place.

During his days off, Shawn and I did all sorts of fun things like hiking, exploring the fish hatchery, driving up to the Franconia Sculpture Park (totally cool!), eating lots of great food and taking walks around the town visiting with the local folk. When we hang out together it's like we are a couple of ten year-old boys and the world is a new adventure to explore. So much fun! We also had a great time playing with my camera--taking snaps of the many places we visited as well as "photo painting" with glow sticks at night. There's so much creativity in photography, and I got to explore all sorts of new creative techniques this summer.

All-in-all, I am thankful, once again, for my friends--of which Shawn has become one of my favorite. True friends are those people who take the time to just hang out with you, challenge you to continue being your best, and the ones who know "who you are" (and remind you when you forget). Thanks, Shawn, for making a part of my summer so much fun!

The Ambassador

Worth A Thousand Words

When I bought my new Nikon D40 digital SLR camera a few weeks before I left for India in 2007 I really had no idea what I was about to create. Ever since the high school days of my Olympus OM-10, a camera for which I had saved my dollars for months and months to buy before my move to Finland, photography has always been something that I found intriguing - being able to capture a moment in time through your own unique perception and then share it with the world was and idea that always amazed me.

Before I left for India I took a couple of my "muse walks" through the parks of Minneapolis and around the lakes on uptown, taking snapshots of whatever captured my attention. I started to practice using the settings on my camera and started taking a variety of shots during the day and at night. I was totally getting into my new toy. When I finally arrived in India I took my camera with me literally everywhere I went - to work, site seeing, morning walks, and especially on my monthly trips to various countries. My camera suddenly became a direct extension of my body - a somewhat permanent fixture attached to my right hand like some sort of assistive apparatus... and I loved it :o)

Over the course of my 12-month expatriate assignment I took over 14,000 pictures - or, as my Indian friends call them, "snaps" (short for snapshots). "Over 14,000 ??" You say. Yes. And many of them can be found in my online Picasa galleries. Nearly each adventure, event, trip, etc., got some sort of attention from my camera. If Michael showed up at a celebration or function you could assume he'd had his camera, and all of my expat friends eventually grew accustomed to having their picture taken all the time. I figured this assignment in India was such a unique opportunity - I didn't want to miss out on the chance to capture as much of it as I could!

Now the fun part: those pictures are becoming part of my present life because they help to showcase much of the beauty and splendor that I was privileged to experience during my worldly travels. I am so excited to be assembling photo books, greeting cards, framed prints, and custom photo gifts using so many of these photos. My first photo book, The Colors of India, was released in May, and soon followed The Children of India, and most recently, Inspiration from the World, a photo book which has expanded into three lines of photo greetings cards and prints.

My Mom and I have been hitting the art fairs recently and my photos are a hit! I sell my cards, books and prints while my Mom sells custom-made bracelets and cards, and we get to talk to people so I can tell them the stories behind the pictures. I've also found a local store in Bemidji to sell my card lines and will be a featured artist in the Bemidji Art Walk in October. In Minneapolis I've gotten the nod to display my prints in a popular coffeehouse as well as an art gallery in the warehouse district. Great fun!

If you'd like to check out my new line of cards and prints, simply follow this link. Until I get my PayPal link uploaded you can order cards or prints via my page as well. Check it out.

Funny how certain things in life seem to "find you" sometimes, isn't it? For this, and so many other things, I am grateful. My photography has allowed me to share my experiences and stories with so many people in ways I never thought of - how cool is that.

Hope you're having a wonderful summer!

The Ambassador of Goodwill

Let me show you the world through my eyes.

A Royal Event

What do you mean your family doesn't dress-up in medieval costume on festive occasions...? Doesn't everyone?! Okay... I suppose I'd better provide a little context for the picture above.

Yesterday we attended the birthday party for our neighbor Lucas - he's 4 years old :o) Lucas decided that he wanted to celebrate his birthday with a costume party for the parents and friends that emulated his medieval play castle on their front lawn, hence a theme was born. After all, for last year's third birthday Lucas had received armor including a helmet, breastplate and sword - so why not continue the theme of the gallant knight?

We had no problem finding costumes as I have my ornate and beautiful kurtas from India to use as "royal" attire - add some miscellaneous costume jewelry and a crown from Burger King and voila! The Royal Family was born.

We all had a fun time, especially Natalie, my 12-year old niece who's been staying with us every other week and helping to take care of the neighbor kids, including Lucas, his brother Jack, and their new brother and sister twins born just 8 months ago. A full house under the age of 4! Natalie and I (Uncle Mike) have been enjoying the summer and spending time exploring the town, going out to movies, and having picnics by the lake.

What a fun summer to spend with my family! Thanks, Bemidji, for always welcoming me home :o)

The Ambassador

Inspiration From The World

Today I released my third photo book, Inspiration From The World - a book that began as set of 4 photo greeting cards which best expressed natural moments of inspiration from nature I received on my travels last year. The original set of 4 photographs has now grown to a collection of 20 images shot at various locations around the world, each designed to bring feelings of peace, hope and inspiration to those who view them. The photos were taken at following locations:

• Barcelona, Spain
• Rome, Italy
• Alps of Switzerland
• Salzburg, Austria
• Kerala, India
• Siem Reap, Cambodia
• Kandy, Sri Lanka
• Singapore
• Zermatt, Switzerland
• Bemidji, Minnesota
• Tea Fields of Sri Lanka
• Kabini, India

I feel so very privileged to have had the chance to visit these amazing destinations and bring back some of the natural beauty that exists there... what an adventure. You may view sample pages of the book (and my other books) at http://www.blurb.com/user/mthomas29

I hope this book brings to others the feelings of peace and inspiration these stunning places brought to me. Order your copy today (Best option: Hardcover, Dust Jacket) and begin to enjoy the beauty of the world in your own home. Such a lovely conversation starter to compliment high tea & biscuits in the solarium!

Namaste,

The Ambassador of Goodwill

The Power of Belief

In one of my favorite films, The Evening Star, Shirley MacLaine’s character, Aurora, states, “I have come to the conclusion there’s no such thing as a mistake. I think we all create what we need.” When I first heard those words I had a light bulb moment. Could I really be creator of my experiences based on the choices I was making?! The realization was profound.

In March I wrote a blog entry entitled The Next Step, in which I discussed the shift I was experiencing and how I'd decided to write a new "business plan for my life". A large part of this new business plan was devoted to my career and the direction I was headed. As I performed this exercise I realized that I had created my "job" as the center of my life - you know the story, go to work and make money so I can afford to pay rent, buy food, go out for an occasional dinner or coffee with a friend, pay my bills, yada yada yada... the usual routine. This has been my reality for many years. Why? Because that's what I chose to believe.

Well, guess what? (I can't tell you how many times my parents have heard me say that!) I changed my mind. Literally. My new business plan for my life included a new belief about my job and how I am going to earn money. Instead of having employment as the center of my life like some sort of feeding machine (I see the automatic milker replacing the mother pigs in the movie Babe), I now see the center of my life being about stepping into my true self, living my passion, and manifesting my vision - whether it be my books, photography, blogging - whatever makes me tick. Out of those activities will flow wonderful outputs such as experiences, relationships, and that golden word "revenue". Money will come as a result of stepping into my greatness... not the other way around. How could this be true? Because it's what I choose to believe.

Initially this shift occured in my mind, but as a direct result of tapping into my feelings and, most importantly, my intuition (spirit). And, like any other type of change, there are consequences... well, let's reframe that - there are results. When you change your mind you shift your energy. Suddenly you see things differently and some things (or people!) no longer fit your new reality. Thus, changes in relationships, career decisions, environmental influences, etc., will start to occur. However, this is part of the process. As you change on the inside, the outside of your life will also change.

So, in short, I have resigned from my job at Target, I'm moving out of my apartment, simplifying and scaling back in many areas of my life, and leaping into my new life without looking back. Why? Because those are the external results of my internal changes. How can I do this? Because I truly believe that "if you jump the net will appear" (thanks for that, Mary). I have faith that I will manifest the opportunties, people, and experiences to help me step even further into my greatness - to fulfill even more of the purpose for which I have been placed on this earth. Pretty cool, huh? :o)

As I move back out into the world please continue to follow my travels, read my insights on The Balance Factor, (buy my photography books! :o) as I continue to spread a message of connection and goodwill across the world. Who knows where it will take me next. I really have no idea what's going to happen, but I can't wait!

Peace.

The Ambassador of Goodwill

Who's Calling, Please??

"Hello."

"Yes, is this Mr. Soon_ _ _ airr _ _ barrg??"

"Almost. Who's calling, please?"

"Hello Sir. This is Todd Pimpkin calling from BankOne. How are you today?"

"Not interested."
(click.)

Ah, yes... a topic near and dear to all of our hearts. Telemarketing.

Most likely near, but definitely not dear, telemarketing is indeed a part of our reality. And the conversation above? That was me a few years ago before I finally got rid of my land line and went exclusively to a mobile phone. But even if you migrate to the land of cellular towers and satellite beams, the threat of unsolicited advice and "free trial" offers will continue to make its journey directly to your telephone. Congratulations! Didn't you read the fine print...?

However, in response to an ever-pressing need to "do something about this craziness", as my friend Shawn would say, I've compiled a few tactics and strategies you can employ to cope with the all-you-can-eat sumptuous buffet of delicious subsidies of which telemarketers are trained to feed you. It just so happened that I've prepared a short eLearning module (thanks to Tom Kuhlmann) giving you the latest lowdown on how to deal with telemarketers--well, with my "spin" of course. How could I resist?!

Click on this snap below to check it out:


I hope you enjoyed my lively and informative module. Just be thankful I didn't add a quiz or proficiency test. Oh, I've got it--just try out some of those lines on your next telemarketer and be sure to let me know the results, and if you do find true love you'd better invite me to the wedding! Now that would make quite a unique blog entry... hmm...

Incidentally, I produced this eLearning module using Articulate Presenter, one of the many quality products by Articulate, Inc., a growing technology company and global online community with whom I've had the privilege of partnering the past couple years, most recently producing a case study about creating effective blended learning from boring PowerPoint. Their products are quite easy to use (and affordable, as well ;o) Check them out!

Tomorrow I'm off to the Spring CEdMA Conference in San Jose to present the case study and assist more of our national training leaders with eLearning transition tools like Presenter. Getting back in the conference loop these past months has been such a great way to keep me "movin and shakin" since returning from India. After all, the best knowledge is that which is shared.

Happy Spring to All,

The Ambassador of Goodwill

Family Matters

This past week I had a fantastic visit from my sister, Becky. She was scheduled to attend a software workshop on Monday so she came down from Erhard (a small town located between Pelican Rapids and Fergus Falls, Minnesota) on Sunday and decided to stay with her brother "in the big city" for three days--right on!

Ever since returning from India a few months ago it's been rather quiet in my life, not like the noise and activity of my experience in Bangalore. This quiet often feels nice, but also feels a bit empty. One of the things I miss most about my expat life is having the other expats around. Living in our apartment building, Zen Gardens, was like a college dorm and Melrose Place wrapped into one--some excitement, some drama, some challenges, but lots of time together. It was my expat family! Even though we all had our own apartments we were never more than a few steps away from one another. Now I'm back up by myself in my corner apartment and I only know one of my neighbors so far... quite the change.

While Becky was here we spent the first couple of nights setting up her new laptop and watching episodes of The Office on DVD--what a hilarious show! We just sat there laughing. It was great :o) On Tuesday Becky came into work so I could give her a tour of Target Headquarters. We stopped by the Bullseye shop, visited the Target history displays, and stopped by my office before we headed off to lunch at Bank, a unique restaurant in the old Farmers & Mechanics Bank building which is now the new Westin Minneapolis Hotel. What an excellent time! Tuesday evening was a dinner party at my apartment with Becky joining my friends Blaine, Ryan and Megan. We had a great time breaking-in my new dining room table (purchased at Target, of course), eating Blaine's amazing dinner, laughing and sharing stories. It was so fun to bring people together. Between my monthly mixers, visits from family, and now a small dinner party, it's been so nice to have people in my apartment--it warms the space and keeps my apartment a "home".

Yesterday afternoon Becky's husband, Jim, and my nieces Nicki and Natalie stopped by to pick her up as they headed over to the U of M campus to watch Pelican Rapids play in the high school basketball tournament. Our mini-vacation came to an end, but not without three days of fun, laughter and good conversations. Sometimes it's those little spontaneous visits that make all the difference!

Whether it's my expat family from India, my family here in Minnesota, or my family of friends in Minneapolis, I am reminded once again that "family" comes in many forms--and spending time with them is so important. For family does, indeed, matter.

Peace.

The Next Step

You know how some days you're just ready for change? I realize that spring is still around the corner (especially after 6 inches of snow and subzero temps this week...), but I've been itching for something to shift. So in a moment of inspiration last week I decided to sit down and write a new business plan for my life. "A what?" you say... Yes, you heard me, a business plan for my life.

During a working session this morning with my good friend Bob Manning (mentioned in my last blog entry), we chatted about our current projects and I told him about my business plan. Bob's first reaction was, "Write about it!" So because he was inspired, I have also been inspired to write about it on my blog today. Here's the lowdown...

Until last week I'd always made short term plans--you know, like my top goals for the year on New Year's Day or planning my next monthly trip, etc., even created multiple "vision boards" over the years (see The Secret), but never really sat down and described what I wanted my entire life to look like. Actually, to be more precise, what I wanted my life to feel like (sometimes you have to believe before you see :o) So I got out a notepad & pen and decided to take the next step--write it out.

Now if you know me personally you'll know I've been actively editing my first book in The Balance Factor series for the past month, so writing's been taking up most of my free time; however, writing a book is much more challenging than I had assumed. When you can speak about something, that's great! Conversation flows because it's dynamic and has a lot to do with the context, your mood, and the relationship you have the person you're speaking to... but the written word does not. Words are not concerned with your mood or if you're having a good day--words are static. But this writing was different, so sitting down and writing something other than my book came as a welcomed relief!

What does a business plan for life include? Whatever you want it to. I just went down the list and made categories for my "big buckets" and then added bullet points for each:

• Career
• Home
• Family
• Finances
• Vision/Business/Projects
• Personal (Mind, Body, Spirit)

These were my top sections--many of which have subsections and bullets for each area, but the most important thing was that I took time to focus on what I really want to create in my life. Since I'm a firm believer that we all create what we need, I wanted to truly harness that power and create a life filled with what I want most--happiness and harmony. Hey, why not?!

Ever since I wrote down my personal business plan my energy has been shifting. Over the past week I've noticed in change in my level of focus and concentration, and when I get a little hazy or off kilter during my day I can glance back at my list and see where my thoughts and behaviors are aligning with my goals. I can ask myself, "Is what I'm doing/saying/being in-line with what I am wanting to create?" And that, my friends, is the ultimate question!

What an interesting exercise it's for me. I dare you to try it and see what it does for you...

Be Well,

The Ambassador of Goodwill

Passing It On

Last month I had the unique opportunity to visit Stillwater Junior High School to "pass on" some of my key insights and stories about living in India and being an expat. My good friend, Bob Manning--a fantastic teacher, global consultant, and visionary--had arranged for these presentations to his ninth grade Geography classes as a follow-up to a series of video Skype calls from India with the same students last Fall.

My presentation, Incredible India!, highlighted my reason for moving to India and the different stories, people, and traveling destinations I experienced during my 12 months there. The presentation is similar to the one I give at Target, but customized for the minds of ninth grade students. I loved showing some pictures, telling my many stories and sharing the differences and similarities of the Indian culture--reminding the students that even though we may look and sound differently on the outside, people are generally the same on the inside--warm, friendly and willing to teach you about their culture.

I encouraged the kids to travel, learn more about the world, and focus on our differences as strengths. The world is an amazing laboratory of learning just waiting to be experienced! My hope is that I could replace a fear of the world with a curiosity of it. The students seemed to enjoy the presentations and even made comments on my Michael's India blog. I even ended up in the Country Messenger regional newspaper and was touted as a "World Traveler"--how exciting! I felt so honored to be featured in their publication.

I know that I had received the many benefits of living and traveling abroad, so it's always nice to have the opportunity to pass it on. Thank you, Bob, for allowing me to do that!

Onward,

The Ambassador of Goodwill

Powerchick Strikes Again!

This past Friday was the official book launch party for Honoree Corpron's latest book, The Successful Single Mom. Most of you who know me will already be familiar with the name Honoree Corpron (aka, my "Powerchick")--a fellow entrepreneur, trusted advisor, and one of my favorite and closest friends. Honoree and I met in 2001 when I joined the Honolulu Rotary Club. We instantly connected and our friendship has sparked creative collaborations for projects from the Next Generation Rotarians (aka, the "Under 40 Club"), volunteer work with Jim Nabors and the Honolulu Symphony, to helping each other manifest our own personal visions.

Honoree's new book pays due diligence to the journey of the single Mom (herself being a single mom for many years), and gives single Moms and their families a host of tools and tips they need to quickly and effectively get moving personally and professionally. Visit her book site (and link to my review on Amazon) at: thesuccessfulsinglemombook.com

My buddy Lukas (founder and president of Gimigo) and I decided to surprise Honoree at the launch party by flying to Las Vegas Friday afternoon and just "showing up"... it was great! We had a chance to meet her new husband, Byron, and spend time with her 9-year old daughter, Lexi (without whom this book couldn't have been written!) Since I hadn't seen Honoree since returning from India our visit was both timely and appreciated. I'm constantly reminded how important my friendships are with people who support one another in manifesting their dreams. Both Honoree and Lukas are amazing examples of how you can achieve whatever you put your mind, body and soul into. It's the Law of Attraction!

As I continue to manifest my Balance Factor vision I know that I have the support of my family and friends, like Honoree and Lukas, to help me achieve my goals and dreams. It is not alone by which we truly succeed in life, but by touching the lives of others. And, like peace and goodwill, you need to pass it on. Thank you, Honoree, for passing on your love and support to me all of these years so that I, in turn, can do the same.

Onward and upward!

The Ambassador of Goodwill

Weekend With Uncle Mike

This past weekend I had the privilege of hosting my sister, Becky; brother-in-law, Jim; and nieces Nicki (15) and Natalie (12) as they came down to Minneapolis for the weekend from Erhard--a small town between Pelican Rapids and Fergus Falls, Minnesota. Becky runs her own business designing custom greeting cards, websites and recruiting materials for an international recruiting firm while Jim is a regional supervisor for a copy & duplicating company based in Minneapolis with an office in Fargo, North Dakota. They arrived late Friday night and we stayed up talking, laughing and watching episodes of The Office on DVD (thanks Ryan!)--a fun night, indeed.

Now the best of the weekend was that Jim and Becky were here to attend Jim's annual office holiday party on Saturday night which left the girls to stay with Uncle Mike. Woohoo! A slumber party was in the works :o) After an excellent birthday lunch for Jim at Buca di Beppo, we dropped off the "old folks" and proceeded on Uncle Mike's tour of the downtown skyway, shopped at Target (of course), and then headed over to the Utrecht art supply store to pick up sketch pads, pencils, paint canvas frames and other crafty fun stuff. We also took a moment to stop by St. Mary's Basilica and walk through the amazing cathedral and look at the sculptures and artwork. Dropping in to visit my neighbor, the Basilica, has become one of my favorite "moments of spontaneous spirituality" while living downtown. I embrace the beauty and silence within its walls, and take several deep breaths giving thanks for those moments of serenity. In return for my gratitude the bells of St. Mary's serenade me each weekend :o)

So Uncle Mike and the girls spent the evening eating pizza and ice cream, watching movies, and playing with the new sketchpads. By midnight Uncle Mike was fast asleep on the couch (now who's the "old folk"...) and eventually the girls zonked out as well. Sunday morning brought chocolate chip pancakes, a few lunch leftovers, and the return of Mom & Dad. Before I knew it the troops were packed and gone... time always flies when you've having fun.

How thankful I am for my family and the times we spend together--and now it's so nice that I'm only 3 hours away instead of 32! Making it a priority to spend quality time with friends and family is always an investment that pays off in happiness and joy--and for that I will always be thankful. Peace.

The Ambassador of Goodwill

I Have Become My Parents

*Even though this entry is more in-line with my postings on The Balance Factor blog, I felt it needed to be posted here :o)

As I was walking home from work today I said to myself, "I have become my parents." Honestly now, how many of you reading this post have said the same thing? Yes, it is true--I have become my parents... but in my case this is a VERY GOOD thing, and let me tell you why.

My parents, Tom & Yvonne:

• live their lives in honesty, trust and integrity
• have a genuine interest in other people and their needs
• take care of themselves so they are strong enough to help others
• have become the bringers of light into so many people's lives
• love me, support me, inspire me and encourage me to be my best
• are a testament to everyone they meet
• are two amazing people

And now I strive to be all those things as well.

So how do I know these things? Because my parents are two of my best friends. When I tell people that most common response I get is, "What?! Your parents are your friends?!" And I just grin and reply, "Yup!" However, a friendship with your parents doesn't just happen, you have to intend it. If you have heard me speak about the power of intention you will know that I firmly believe that your intentions drive your attitudes, actions and words.

Developing a friendship with your parents--or any family member, for that reason--requires you to first decide that will love and accept them as they are right now. This is the first and most critical step in this, or any, relationship. Once you can love and accept someone as they are right now (including yourself!) you are on the road to a healthy relationship. "How?", you ask. Because you have just practiced acceptance. Acceptance means you don't have the need to control the behavior of another person--their actions and behaviors are theirs and you simply respond to them according to your own boundaries. By accepting others you give them the freedom to be themselves, and all healthy relationships are based in freedom!

Another aspect of building this relationship is that the decision had to be mutual--my parents needed to work at our friendship as much as I did. Because they are still my parents this relationship requires a large amount of patience and flexibility, and it means that we don't always agree. But think of it this way--do you always agree with your closest friends? This relationship, like any other, is based in respect. We can agree to disagree; we can keep our differences; we don't feel the need to pressure or persuade one another; we truly accept one another and seek only to build each other up. This mutual "fan club" makes for such a positive and consistent support network. My parents are my biggest cheerleaders! And who better to have in my corner than the people who know me best.

I feel that the biggest benefit of this relationship is that even though they are my friends, Tom & Yvonne still get to be my parents. This comes in really handy! When I ask for advice, they are eager to give it; when I'm having a bad day and just need a little lift, they are always there to pick me up; when I go home to visit, my Mom still loves to cook my favorite foods for me. Once a parent, always a parent!

So now you realize how "becoming my parents" is, indeed, a blessing. I am so grateful for my Mom & Dad and the friendship I have with them. And even though you may not be best friends with your parents or even have a close friendship with your parents or siblings, realize that the people closest to you are the people who are the most important; and aren't people the most important part of life? I have to believe so.

Happy New Year!